Susye Weng-Reeder, a Google Verified internet personality based in San Francisco, writes a witty and insightful blog titled “20 Social Media Mistakes Creators Make—And How to Avoid Them,” offering humor-infused wisdom to help digital creators build better collaborations and avoid common pitfalls.

20 Social Media Mistakes Creators Make—And How to Avoid Them

This blog is written from lived experience after working with over 50 local creators as a trusted leader in the digital space. While it offers a humorous take on common collaboration missteps (we’ve all seen them—limelight thieves, NDA ghosts, and early posters), it’s ultimately intended to support healthier, more respectful creative partnerships. The content is original and protected. Please don’t copy, scrape, or republish any part of this list without express written permission.

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20 Social Media Creator Types

“Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” – Helen Keller

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20 TYPES OF CREATORS YOU’LL MEET ON SOCIAL MEDIA

And How to Avoid Being One of Them for Better Collabs

After spending two years as a full-time digital creator, Google Verified internet personality, and author, I’ve established myself as a trusted voice in the San Francisco digital community. Through mentoring over fifty local creators, I’ve witnessed firsthand the highs and lows of social media collaborations, and I often invite creators to join me on collaborations as a way to help them build their portfolios and gain exposure. Navigating the digital world, especially on various social media platforms, is a bit like entering a jungle: you have to keep an eye out for everything from “Caption Copiers” to “Selfie Superstars.”

Whether you’re managing a YouTube channel, building a brand identity, or aiming for global brand collaborations, knowing how to engage with other creators—and avoid common mistakes—is crucial to success. Social media strategies vary, but one thing remains the same: building authentic connections is the best way to make an impact. In this blog, I’m sharing insights I’ve gathered from guiding local creators and brands through the highs and lows of social media collaboration.

So, let me take you on a little tour through the 20 types of creators you’ll encounter on social media networks and the social media best practices they tend to overlook. This blog post is all about the biggest mistakes we see on social media sites, served with a generous side of humor and a dash of wisdom. Whether you’re a beauty content creator, a small business owner using a personal account to reach potential customers, or someone in the travel industry trying to leverage user-generated content on different platforms, these are the “types” to avoid becoming. A strong social media marketing strategy, after all, requires the right platform, the right type of content, and a solid social media content calendar to reach your audience effectively.

20 Types of Creators

1. The No-Thank-You Taker

In the world of content creators, collaborations are often an invaluable way to build portfolios, gain exposure, and create new connections. But sometimes, a “No-Thank-You Taker” shows up—someone who joins a social media campaign, benefits from the event, and then posts as if they were the only one involved. It’s like they’ve forgotten they didn’t throw the party; they just showed up for the snacks! While it’s easy to get wrapped up in the excitement, a simple “thank you” or tag is a small gesture that goes a long way in building a reputation in the community.

Whether you’re new to the scene or have a substantial following, remember that collaborations aren’t just about the content; they’re about building positive relationships that can lead to future opportunities. Showing appreciation for everyone involved—whether it’s a quick tag on social media posts, an acknowledgment in your social media calendar, or a real-time shout-out—helps strengthen connections. It’s also a great way to demonstrate respect for other content creators and social media marketers in your network, keeping the door open for more collaborations down the line.

2. The Premature Poster

The Premature Poster just can’t wait to hit “post.” They’re your plus-one to an event but jump the gun, posting about it before you’ve even wrapped up the collaboration. Their excitement is admirable… but timing matters! If you’re invited as someone’s plus-one, remember that it’s not just about your content but also respecting the schedule and expectations set by the main collaborator and brand.

Part of a successful social media strategy is honoring the agreed-upon timeline to maximize engagement and brand impact. Coordinated posting ensures consistent messaging and maximizes reach. Posting too soon can disrupt the flow of the campaign and unintentionally create competition rather than collaboration. If you’re ever tempted to post early, remember: sometimes the best idea is to wait a single day. Not only will it better fit the campaign, but it also helps maintain harmony and avoid real-time surprises for everyone involved. Patience pays off, and respecting the timing shows you’re a team player!

3. The “Forgot to Tag” Friend

Meet The “Forgot to Tag” Friend—the collaborator who excitedly posts about an event but forgets to tag you or the brand. Tagging is a powerful tool for boosting reach, brand awareness, and showing the target audience who’s involved.

Skipping tags can make collaborators feel invisible. Tagging isn’t just about etiquette; it’s a great way to build community and help potential customers connect with everyone involved. So, “Forgot to Tag” Friends, double-check before hitting post. A tag only takes a second, but it can make a world of difference in building brand identity and ensuring future influencer collaborations.

4. The Rule Ignorer

The Rule Ignorer is that creator who sees “guidelines” as mere suggestions. But ignoring rules in collaborations can backfire, especially when brands have crafted them to protect sensitive information and ensure consistency with brand identity.

Guidelines are like a recipe: skip steps, and the result is a mess. If the brief asks for one carousel post on Instagram, don’t turn it into a ten-story takeover. Rules aren’t there to stifle creativity; they’re there to make sure everyone’s on the same page. At the end of the day, following the brief is the best way to show you’re a reliable collaborator.

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CREATING A SUPPORTIVE CREATOR COMMUNITY

5. The Invite Hoarder

In my experience working with creators across various stages of their careers, I’ve come across a few “Invite Hoarders”—those who happily attend every event and benefit from the exposure, but rarely extend the favor or invite you as their plus one when they have opportunities. Think of invites as social currency—if you keep all the coins to yourself, don’t be surprised when the piggy bank runs dry. While they might have their own agenda in taking advantage of collaborations, a successful social media presence is a two-way street. Part of becoming a trusted creator is knowing when to reciprocate.

So, if you’re building your brand awareness by attending events and gaining exposure, consider inviting others, especially emerging creators, to join you on occasion. This small gesture not only fosters long-term partnerships but also strengthens your reputation as someone who uplifts the community rather than using it solely for personal gain. After all, supporting each other creates a more inclusive, thriving network where everyone benefits. After all, supporting each other is the foundation of a strong and connected creator network.


A pile of sepia-toned wax-sealed envelopes symbolizing one-sided invitations and the concept of "invite hoarding" in creator culture. Used humorously in a blog by Susye Weng-Reeder, Google Verified Internet Personality and lead creator in the San Francisco space.

The Art of Collaborative Content

6. The Self-Absorbed Collaborator

Here’s a classic: the creator you invite to one of the best places for a collaboration who’s so focused on their own content that they forget to capture any shots of you, the one who invited them! They post endlessly about themselves, but somehow, you’re missing from every single frame. While it’s great to focus on your brand, remember that collaboration means mutual support and acknowledging others in real time. Remember, collaboration isn’t just a solo photo-op—it’s about capturing the “we” in “selfie!”

In a world where social media use is all about building community, leaving out your collaborator can come across as self-centered and might even lead to negative comments. Next time, remember to capture a few shots of the person who brought you in. Not only is it good “customer service” for maintaining positive relationships, but it’s also a small gesture that shows you’re appreciative. After all, last year’s case studies on collaboration etiquette show that mutual support is what keeps the creator community strong and connected.

A simple photo or tag is a great way to show appreciation and create a balanced narrative that includes everyone involved. Social media collaboration is about community, not just boosting your own content.

7. The Silent Observer

Meet The Silent Observer: they scroll, they watch, they lurk, but they rarely hit that “like” button or leave a comment. You’d almost think they were invisible! But if you’re on social media, your audience needs to see you engage. Social networks thrive on interactions, and engaging with your followers and other creators on social media sites is one of the best practices for building a stronger social media presence. Don’t be the silent ghost at the party—leave a few likes, drop a comment, and share other creators’ work. This isn’t just good for brand awareness; it’s also the best way to build a reputation as a supportive community member.

At the end of the day, engaging is free, and it’s a great idea for better results for your own account!

8. The Self-Promo Hijacker

The Self-Promo Hijacker is the creator who swoops into someone else’s social media post, only to drop their own link, hashtag, or announcement. This isn’t the best place to build your brand! Think of social media as a digital world where everyone’s trying to shine a little. Jumping into someone’s space for your own promo can come off as desperate and, well, rude.

Instead, use that energy to share valuable insights, leave genuine comments, or even share others’ work on your own social media accounts. It’s a better idea to focus on community building rather than hijacking, and it ultimately helps grow brand awareness in a more natural, likable way.

9. The Networking Ninja

Ah, the Networking Ninja—a creator who networks like a pro… until you realize it’s all about what they can get out of it. They’re like the secret agents of social events, except instead of taking notes, they’re eyeing LinkedIn connections! Networking on social media channels isn’t just about landing new collabs; it’s about building a brand identity and giving back. Solid influencer collaborations are built on mutual respect and shared goals.

Networking isn’t a one-way street, so remember that showing genuine interest in others will always be a better choice than simply focusing on your own gain. Building long-term partnerships with potential customers and other creators alike can be a great way to achieve brand awareness and community support that feels authentic and mutually beneficial.

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QUALITY OVER QUANTITY MATTERS

10. The Numbers Obsessed

As someone who has mentored creators with both high and low follower counts, I can tell you that numbers are only part of the equation. “The Numbers Obsessed” creator checks their follower count constantly, forgetting that genuine engagement is often a more accurate measure of success. Remember, it’s about quality, not just quantity. After all, who wants 1,000 followers if 999 are your mom’s accounts?

Followers will come if you focus on providing valuable content that resonates with your target audience. Don’t let numbers define your success—real connections and a meaningful brand identity are what ultimately build lasting relationships with brands and followers alike. Remember, a thriving community isn’t about competing over numbers but creating impactful connections that lift everyone up.


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Don’t Make These Common Creator Mistakes

11. The Selfie Superstar

The Selfie Superstar is that creator who posts endless selfies but seems to forget there’s a brand, product, or collaborator that might deserve a little attention too! Sure, social media accounts are about personal branding, but there’s an art to balance.

Telling a story that includes the brand or product you’re collaborating with not only strengthens brand awareness but also shows your target audience the full picture. A quick tag, a little backstory—these touches go a long way. So next time, remember to turn the camera around now and then; it’s a great way to make sure you’re seen as a team player rather than just a face on the screen.

12. The Caption Cop

The Caption Cop is the creator who scrolls through social media looking for “inspiration” but ends up using someone else’s words verbatim. Let’s keep things original, shall we? Your social media account is a reflection of you, and using your own voice is the best fit for building an authentic brand identity.

AI writing tools can be helpful, but remember: they’re there to assist, not copy. Next time you feel tempted to swipe someone’s words, remember that adding your personal touch is the best way to connect with your target audience. There’s only one you—and that’s what followers want to see!

13. The Story Spam Specialist

The Story Spam Specialist loves a good story post… until it’s so much that followers start swiping away faster than you can say “content overload.” Stories are an awesome type of content, but keep them short and snappy.

Bombarding followers with endless clips can backfire and dilute the message. Posting on a regular basis is fine, but quality over quantity wins every time. Your social media team (and your followers) will thank you for being a bit more selective. A concise, engaging story is the best way to keep your audience tuned in without overwhelming them.

14. The DM Drainer

The DM Drainer is the creator who loves sending direct messages asking for “just a quick favor,” and then another… and another. While community building is essential in the influencer marketing industry, collaboration works best when it’s a two-way street.

Constantly asking for help without offering anything in return drains people’s patience. Supporting others, sharing valuable content, and offering to help when you can are the best ways to build solid relationships. Remember, creators are more likely to support you if you show that same willingness to help them, too.

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SHOWING UP MATTERS

15. The Event Ghost

The Event Ghost is the creator who RSVPs to everything but is as elusive as Bigfoot when it’s time to show up. Sure, things come up—maybe your crystal ball told you to avoid all human interaction that day. But if you’re known for ghosting events like you’re training to be in the next paranormal documentary, it’s time to rethink.

When brands organize influencer collaborations, they’re counting on attendees to actually, well, attend. Just like your favorite ghost stories, an empty seat speaks volumes—except here, it says “unreliable” instead of “mysterious.”

If plans change, just let the host know. Social media collaboration is built on trust, and a quick heads-up is like an invisibility cloak for reputation damage. Remember, your social media presence is only as strong as your reputation, and flakiness isn’t the best way to build it. A supportive creator community is based on mutual help and respect, not just favors—showing up when you say you will is a big part of that trust.


Close-up of a person using a smartphone to read event messages, symbolizing the concept of creators who RSVP but never attend, featured in 'The Event Ghost' section of Susye Weng-Reeder’s blog.

Keep It Short and Sweet

16. The Caption Novelists

Long captions have their place, but The Caption Novelist treats every post like a full blog entry. Instagram is great for sharing stories, but let’s save the lengthy narrative for a blog post.

Social media is for quick, engaging bites, and keeping captions snappy and to the point is usually the best fit. If followers need a snack-sized insight, they’ll appreciate a punchy caption. The best way to keep your audience engaged? Keep the lengthy tales for the platforms that really invite them, like a dedicated blog.

17. The Filter Fanatic

The Filter Fanatic loves a good edit… maybe a little too much. They filter everything until the product, brand, or location looks like it’s been airbrushed into a whole new dimension.

High-quality content should be authentic and relatable. It’s all about balance—enhancements are great, but don’t let the editing get in the way of your brand’s true identity. A natural look often connects best with potential customers, so take it easy on the sliders and keep it real.

18. The One-Upper

We all know The One-Upper: the creator who, no matter what, always has a story that’s bigger, better, or way more exciting. While it’s great to celebrate achievements, social media networks—and especially social media collaboration tools—are all about community, not competition. The social media game—whether for global brands, beauty influencers, or small businesses—thrives on mutual support rather than constant one-upping.

Next time someone shares an accomplishment, celebrate it! You don’t always need to top it with your own. There’s value in lifting others up—it’s a great way to strengthen connections, build a supportive brand image, and foster a welcoming space where team members, collaborators, and even remote teams feel valued. This approach not only creates a positive experience for everyone involved but also sets the right collaboration tool for real-time community building. In a space where social media trends shift quickly, a supportive attitude goes a long way toward building long-lasting relationships.

In the end, taking the time to celebrate others’ successes rather than focusing on one-upping will always be the best choice for genuine growth in the social media space.

19. The Negative Feedback IGNORER

The Negative Feedback Ignorer is the creator who believes that ignoring negative comments will make them disappear. Spoiler alert: it won’t. Negative feedback isn’t a sock that went missing in the dryer; it doesn’t just vanish if you pretend it’s not there. Handling tough comments professionally is one of the best practices for building trust and credibility in your social media game. Social media marketers know that customer service is as important online as it is offline.

Next time you see negative comments on your social media posts, take a moment to respond thoughtfully. Think of it like defusing a ticking time bomb, but with way fewer special effects. This simple step can turn a potential detractor into a supporter and show potential customers and collaborators that your brand values honesty and accountability. Remember, responding to feedback (even the tough kind) is key to maintaining a positive reputation in a digital world that values transparency.

20. The Brand Voice Confuser

Finally, The Brand Voice Confuser is the creator who shifts their tone too often, making it hard for followers to know what to expect. A consistent brand voice is essential in any content strategy for building a recognizable social media presence, especially if you’re working with genuine brands or travel brands aiming to establish long-term connections.

Choose a tone that represents you and stick with it. Maintaining a consistent voice across all social media posts and campaigns helps reinforce your brand identity and ensures you’re reaching the right audience for the right reasons. Whether you’re using AI tools, social media ads, or simply posting new content on a Facebook page, consistency will help create a memorable impression. This approach is the best fit for anyone looking to make an impact with an effective content creation process and solid key metrics.

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GUIDE TO MEANINGFUL COLLABORATIONS & LASTING CONNECTIONS

Wrapping Up with Wisdom

There you have it—the 20 types of creators who make social media collaboration a little more colorful (and occasionally a bit challenging). My goal in sharing these insights is to help content creators at all stages—whether you’re just starting to build your portfolio or refining your approach after years in the game. Avoiding these common social media mistakes is about more than just “getting it right”; it’s about developing a reputation as a reliable, respectful collaborator in the San Francisco digital community and beyond.

Whether you’re crafting a carousel post on Instagram, a reel on TikTok, or producing a YouTube video, remember that the best way to thrive across social platforms is by focusing on the most important thing: genuine connections. Every collaboration is a stepping stone, not just for the content you create but for the relationships you build along the way. The digital world is a great place to grow your network, and it’s always a good idea to approach it with authenticity and respect.

As a creator and leader in the industry, my mission is to help others succeed by sharing the lessons I’ve learned. So, as you go forth and create, aim to be the kind of collaborator that others admire and remember fondly. Fostering a supportive community benefits everyone, helping creators grow together rather than viewing each other as competition. By embracing collaboration, we build a stronger collective presence and allow our community to thrive. Follow these best practices, enjoy the journey of growing your portfolio, and remember: every connection is an opportunity to build credibility and trust.

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Happy creating, and here’s to authentic, inspiring, and successful collaborations that lift everyone up!

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2 responses to “20 Social Media Mistakes Creators Make—And How to Avoid Them”

  1. Chloe Avatar
    Chloe

    Thanks for sharing this useful post.

  2. SincerelySusye Avatar

    Happy to share! If you have any questions, feel free to ask! 🙂

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